1. Could you date someone who is really into Legos? Their house consist of Lego furniture, the walls are covered in 3-D Lego art or photos of mammoth Lego creations.

Oh yes yes I could. Obsession is a sign of passion. So long as that passion was something that could be shared with me or at least would not exclude me then I can be exciting to hang out with crazy people.

2. You have a big date and discover that you have run out of undies (underwear, panties), would you:
a. re-wear dirty
b. wear a swimsuit or swimsuit bottoms
c. line worn undies with fresh panty-liners
d. go commando

D. Commando of course

3. In order to date the person of your dreams, you must be in a reality show with them. Would you date him/her? Why?

Oh yes. Though reality TV is the death rattle of television it must be more fun to be in one than watch. Hopefully it would be one of those adventure ones.

4. You have been dating a certain someone for a while, you two click and you really like them but they confided to you that they are a crime-fighting super hero? Do you still date them or let the relationship cool? Why?

Do you still date them? Of course you do. First ok that’s awesome and second do you want to dump a super ninja who might have separation issues?

5. You are on a date with someone you really want to impress. Your pants/skirt/shirt/bra split early in the date. What do you do?
a. Tie a jacket or sweater around your waist or put the jacket or sweater on to hide the issue
b. Stop at a drugstore and buy safety pins, and in secret try to fix and hide problem
c. ‘Fess up to the problem, let it all hang out and continue with the date
d. Cut the date short and go home

C. It’s always better to lay it out there and it might help the other person to relax if they see your only human as well.

You went away for the weekend with your new romantic love interest. He/she had planned a wonderful weekend of outdoor fun for you both but it has started to rain and storms are in the forecast for the next few days. What do you suggest the two of you do instead?

Well as someone who loves the rain it’s not a good set up but a great question. Often someone will work their ass off only to see their plans crash. That’s life. The important thing is to acknowledge their effort and try to support them when it crashes. Brake out the umbrella and show them it’s all good. Jump in a puddle remember it was fun when we were kids.

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Tmi Tuesday

1. Create your perfect job. What do you do?
Oh that’s a nice one. Either a charter captain on a large pleasure boat or a sexual therapist. And no not so I could have sex with the clients but because I believe our society puts a lot of effort into messing people up about their sexuality and that pisses me off.

2. What person has changed you for the better?
Well the largest and most positive impact is due to my wife and sub.

3. Cat person or dog person?
Cat person really though I can appreciate a dog.

4. Who is your favorite relative? Why?
My mother of course.

5. Mop the floor or iron clothes?
Did I mention I was married 😉 mop

6. Which would you rather have, a swimming pool or a gardener? Why?
Swimming pool. I LOVE water and hate work.

You know I had to throw some sexy at ya…
Bonus: Are you better at giving oral sex or receiving oral sex?
Hmmmm can’t say it’s up to me to answer. I think I’m great and receiving but that’s cause who doesn’t like to receive. I’ve never had a complaint as a provider but then again you can only judge by the results.

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Back once again

Well here we are back on line once again. Let’s see if we can make a habit of it this time.

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America Rise Up

This is with out a doubt one of the most absurd and horrific things I have seen in a long time. Not only is this young lady being stripped of her constitutional right to free speech but in order to protect two rapists. This lady was assaulted by these men who then proceeded to share photos of the assault with their friends. They had the right and ability to laugh and joke about what they did to her with out anyone on earth protecting her. Yet she hasn’t got the right to condemn them for the crime the perpetrated against her. Because the court wants to protect them. I am so outraged I can hardly even write about this. Why are we protecting rapists and putting a victim on trail for pointing out her assailants? What in the world is going on here? And the petition to open the court hearing against her to the media has “hundreds” of signatures? Hundreds? Where are the millions of women in this country and why are they not screaming at the top of their lungs? Where are the sons, fathers and brothers and why are they not stepping out with pickets and placards? This is simply an complete miscarriage of justice and a total affront to any morality imaginable. The people of this country should not, can not accept this without promoting the act of rape and subjugating future innocent women to abuse. This is an act that promotes a culture where rape is acceptable and women are marginalized. This needs to be what’s on the front page of every paper in America, this needs to be on the news headlines of my tv. And until enough people start demanding better than this and forcing these issues to be the center of media attention we can all count on our loved ones, our friends and neighbors continuing to suffer from attacks assault and this kind of idiotic abuse from not only men but the “justice” system which is supposed to protect and defend them.

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Finally back

Well we have been away for a while. Life was a bit too busy to allow us time to get on line and share our thoughts. Actually life was a little too busy to allow us time to think. But hopefully that’s past us for a while. I’m looking forward to ranting and raving about all sorts of random things once again. And I look forward to everyone acting like anything I say might actually be interesting. Thanks for that by the way. You all know how fragile a man’s ego can be.

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Love brings interesting changes

Being in love with the person you share a Dom/sub relationship with can make it all so much better. However it also brings in a certain amount of caution that you may not have had in other D/s relationships. I find I am much more careful with my wife and push much slower than in previous relationships. I am quickly learning that can be a serious problem as in love or not your sub still craves what every sub craves.

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Finally here

I have finally stepped into the cyber world. I am here to share and enjoy my wife’s blog and talk with her and others about life, love and of course our sexuality.

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